A Guy's ego is bigger than his balls..
01-23-2009 Friday
It doesn't take a very smart girl to realize that boys are the more egoistic gender. Trust me, I've proved that countless of times already and if I have a dollar for every egoistic guy that came my way, I would've been a very rich badass chick right now.
If some of you will misunderstand this as a boy-bashing blog entry, it's your own personal judgement but allow me to say that what I'm writing is just the bitter fact about boys. They'd rather fuck themselves than have their ego get crushed to tiny bit-size pieces.
I'm not a guy-hater or anything like that, matter of fact, I like boys. They're good friends. They know how to compliment a girl. They're fairly okay until they act different and seems like they're hitting on you. Now I'm telling all you females, beware of guys that seem to be hitting on you especially if you're aware that the guy is taken. Sometimes the reason behind that is not because they find you attractive but because they wanna know the actual size of their ego. Be really careful with boys like that. Play along, flirt if you like, but never ever fall for them because if you do, you're doomed.
Take it from me, girls. There's this colleague of mine who started texting me a few weeks ago. Prior to his texts, another colleague informed me that this guy is crushing on me but fuck that, I ignored it. He said he wanna be friends so I said that's fine, I'm cool with that. We exchange text messages every now and then and eventhough we barely have things in common, I enjoyed our conversations. He seemed to be hitting on me in a way but I shrugged it off thinking that it couldn't be possible since he has a girlfriend. Oh and yeah, I have a boyfriend and he knew it.
Yesterday, we had lunch together and I must admit, he's really interesting. He will pass for an older brother and I actually call him 'kuya' and I'm his 'bunso'. After lunch, when I came back to my work station, he texted again asking me what kind of guy I like. I replied very briefly. You can just imagine my surprise when he said, 'Too bad but the guy you're talking about is already taken'. So I said, 'Who the hell?', and he said, 'You're texting him right now.' Wow. Talk about a humongous ego!
I like him, he's kind and all but my mistake is that I nurtured his goddamn ego, feeding it without knowing until it has become so enormous that it hid the nice guy in him who first texted me.
Yeah. Lesson learned.
We still exchange messages but this time, I keep my replies uninterested or bored. He has to know where he stand and his ego need to flatten up a bit so everything can go back to normal.
posted by Monica-Lynne @ 5:23 PM
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