The Divorce Thing

11-18-2009 Wednesday

I'm supposed to post an entry about the famous chicks that I totally dig when I came across Avril Lavigne's website while I was searching for the best recent photo of her to add to my post. A recent post in her website caught my attention, it says:
Posted September 17th, 2009 by avriladmin source: http://www.avrillavigne.com/home

Like, for real for real?? Deryck and Avril are splitting up? Not that I care now but before I used to be a die hard Avril fan when I was a budding teenager skater wannabe and the last thing I heard from her was she's really in love with that Sum 41 guy. I've watched interviews of her, raving about how she was like when she met Deryck, how she knew that he's the one and so on and so forth. Whatever happened to all of that?

One source says that Avril got married young and she's finally realizing that. That's a good point. It was written that she got married when she was 21, which is my age now and right now, at this age, I don't see myself settling down even though I feel like it'll be Alex. Sometimes I think about it but when I think about the things that I want to do, to achieve, to provide to my family, I want to take the time that I have before considering marriage.

With regards to Avril-Deryck, it's not that I really give a shit about it, I mean, it's their life and I no longer listen to Avril even though I still love seeing her face everywhere. It's more of disappointment because I seriously thought that they're love story is different than those hollywood stars whose hobby is to get married, get divorced, find a new lover and the cycle continues. Seeing them before will make you think that they're the perfect pair who will never separate, ever. Well, I guess, everyone gets married to get divorced, find a new lover, get married and the cycle repeats over and over.

The reason why I'm talking about this divorce thing is because it makes me scared to ever get married someday. Do love fade away just like that? Is it really possible to fall for someone so deep that you get married but es time goes by, that love simply vanishes? If that's the case, then I'd rather be an old woman living single and alone for the rest of my life.

That's what I hate about US and hollywood. Divorce is legal that everything can be taken care of by the local government. Why allow it anyway? When people get married, they're in their right minds aren't they? It's not something that you do now then after a couple of years you decide that you want to be over with it and move on alone, that's so fucking crazy. Divorce should not even be legal anywhere. Especially if the couple has kids already, imagine what divorce can do to those kids. I know how that feels, my parents got separated when I was young and it sucks to deal with custody shit, having to choose who to live with, fighting for your right to be known by your other parent, all of that is fucking insane and traumatic for someone who's too young to even understand why her parents are separating in the first place.

It's sad to see two people who used to be so in love with each other part ways and it makes me think twice about love. I know that now I love Alex but seeing other people go through those things at their age, I think I'll enjoy being young and when the time is right, I know that everything will just fall into place.

As for Avril, hey yeah girl that's hollywood you likin' it? Enjoy being single again. I am turned off a bit but you're still on my list, pretty girl. Divorce sucks. Hollywood stinks. Artists are retards. Where do we go from here?

Labels: alex, Avril Lavigne and Deryck Whibley divorce, Divorce, hollywood, love, pink crimson

posted by Monica-Lynne @ 3:47 AM